Ike Banner was a seminary graduate. He’d thought that traditional ministry would be his path in life, but God had other plans. Shortly after he obtained a doctorate degree, a fledging practice, owned by one of his father’s dear friends, practically landed in his lap. He’d honed his skills in the quiet town of Bend, Oregon, for twenty years before relocating to Rancho Palos Verdes ten years ago. If there was any doubt that his practice was different, his first three words after initial introductions eliminated all doubt. “Shall we pray?” Stan and Passion looked at each other briefly, smiled, and joined hands with the doctor. After a brief but heartfelt prayer, the three sat in Dr. Banner’s neatly appointed office. “Thank you for filling out the questionnaires prior to this meeting. I know it is extensive, but I’ve found it often helps the communication process to write down our thoughts before we voice them and to hear what you believe to be the sticking point in your relationship.
