Table of Contents
Foreword ix
Introduction xv
1 The Recovering Journey
An Angel Wore Fur John Crusey 2
The Empty Chair Jenni Schaefer 5
The Heap Joseph R Cruse, M.D 9
Touched by a Higher Power Godwin H. Barton 12
Silent Rage Kay Conner Pliszka 16
Summer Treasures Jane Middelton-Moz 17
The Skeleton in My Closet Elva Stoelers 21
How Dry I Am Julia Jergensen Edelman 24
A Little Band of Gold Carol J. Bonomo 28
How Long Will It Last This Time? Janell H. 32
The Codependent Diet Linda Day 34
A 4C Woman Deb Sellars Karpek 37
How Am I Going to Pay for All This? Anonymous as told to Earnie Larsen 41
The Letter Tracey W. Lee-Coen 42
2 Shoulders to Lean on
Friends of Bill W., Please Come to Gate… Jim C, Jr. 48
Around the Room Earnie Larsen 50
A Miracle in the Making Jann Mitchell 54
The 202 Club Lee R. McCormick 57
The Seat Andrea W., aka Sola Dayo Nowelile 61
Serendipity or Higher Power? John Bradshaw 64
The Enabling of the Disabled Jayne Thurber-Smith 67
A Promise of Spit and Dirt Cherie Ward 71
A Glimpse of Sanity Peter Wright 73
With a Little Help from My Friends Rev. Bob Lew 78
Dancing with the Elephant Patricia Holdsworth 82
Finding the Healing Moments Robert J. Ackerman, PhD 86
Charlie John C. Friel, Ph.D 89
3 A Sense of Spirituality
My Little Son Showed Me the Way Anonymous as told to Earnie Larsen 94
The Little Yellow Room My Higher Power Built Shannon 96
Hope Lisa J. Schlitt 100
Healing Tears Loretta McCann Bjorvik 102
Free Flight David Mead 105
Whispers of an Angel Julie Orlando 108
Looking for a Sign Jenna Cassell 113
Recovery: A Reason as Well as a Road Rev. Ed Donnally 116
The Richest Man in the World Earnie Larsen 121
A Birthday to Remember Loretta McCann Bjorvik 123
Angels Dancing Anonymous 127
4 Families of Origin, Families of Choice
Panning for Gold Ted Klontz 132
Out of the Blue Miriam Hill 138
Perfect Grief Mark Sanders 141
To Do the Work of Angels Brian Luke Seaward, Ph.D 145
Memory of Two Friends David R. Wilkins 150
The Grace of God Shows Stuart Brantley 152
A Light at the End of the Tunnel Debra Jay 156
Time and Recovery Robert J. Ackerman, Ph.D 161
What Was Left Unspoken Theresa Peluso 163
Tears Arianna Johnson 167
5 The Resilient Soul
Christmas Hope Raquel M. Strand 170
Amanda Stays Safe Jerry Moe 172
We Can Still Sing Jennifer M. Reinsch 176
Could You Be the One? Benneth Lee as told to Mark Sanders 179
Choices Tom Krause 183
Discards Peter Vegso 184
I Am the Story I Tell Myself Mary Ban 187
Take Care of Yourself Ann Best 190
You Become What You Want to Be Marilyn Joan 195
Carry On Tom Krause 198
My Mom's a Party Girl Carla Riehl 199
Twenty-Four Hours to Live Ted Klontz 203
6 Our Community and Diversity
Vita Elizabeth Batt 210
My Best Friend Jack George Roth 215
As My Life Turned Betty King 219
He Sat Alone Steven Manchester 222
Stress Management 101 Abraham J. Twerski, M.D 225
Build It and They Will Come Perry D. Litchfield 227
Black Is a Primary Color Christine Learmonth 232
And the Wisdom to Know the Difference Carol Davis Gustke 235
Not a "Piece of Cake" for Me Emily Schroder 240
The Indestructible Dignity of Humankind Abraham J. Twerski, M.D 243
Gratitude Lisa Kugler 246
By the Dawn's Early Light Terry P. 249
Wise Beyond His Years Sharon Wegscheider-Cruse 253
7 Recovering Joy
Bill Saves the Bill Tracey Lee-Coen 256
My Father's Eyes Erin Hagman 259
Legacy Letitia Trimmer Meeks 263
Bare Bottoms and Dancing Toes Cynthia Borris 268
"I Love My Body!" When Do You Ever Hear Women Say That?! Rachel Caplin 273
The Dead Zone Debbie Heaton 278
Late Night Movies Sallie A. Rodman 283
Recovery's Unlikely Destination Patricia O'Gorman, Ph.D 285
The Journey to Me Linda S. Day 290
From Victim to Victory Jaye Lewis 295
Miracle at Wal-Mart Sherry Diedrich as told to Ruth Coe Chambers 298
8 Fully Recovering, Fully Alive
The Red Peanut Tian Dayton, Ph.D., T.E.P. 304
The Faces of Heroes Todd Outcalt 308
The Dying Battery and the Recovering Codependent Thom Rutledge 311
Legacies Left Behind Claudia Black 314
A Light Touch Anonymous as told to Earnie Larsen 318
Fat, Stupid, Ugly Debrah Constance as told to J.I. Kleinberg 320
I Will Not Give Up Deirdre Mom's 323
Now I Am Whole Betty King 327
Out of the Mouths of Babes Jerry Moe 328
Through the Eyes of My Heart Barbara A Croce 330
Fully Alive Elizabeth Walton 333
Who Is Jack Canfield? 339
Who Is Mark Victor Hansen? 340
Who Is Robert J. Ackerman, PhD.? 341
Who Is Theresa Peluso? 341
Who Is Gary Seidler? 342
Who Is Peter Vegso? 342
Contributors 343
Permissions 350